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Time Makes Ancient Good Uncouth: The Catholic Report on Sexuality by Rosemary Ruether Rosemary Radford Ruether, a contributing editor of Christianity and Crisis, is Georgia Harkness Professor of Theology at Garrett-Evangelical Theological Seminary in Evanston. One of the foremost feminist theologians of the time, she was trained in church history arid historical theology and has published widely on feminism, the Christian roots of anti-Semitism, and the situation of the Palestinians. This article appeared in the Christian Century August 3-10, 1977, p. 682. Copyright by the Christian Century Foundation and used by permission. Current articles and subscription information can be found at www.christiancentury.org. This material was prepared for Religion Online by Ted & Winnie Brock. It should be fairly clear to observers of
contemporary Christianity that Roman Catholicism has been embattled in recent
years over questions of sexuality. There are several reasons for this
development. More than most denominations, the Roman Catholic Church preserves
not only a long historical memory but also institutions such as celibacy
deriving from earlier periods of Christian consciousness. Second, the effects
of modernization through Vatican II have legitimated the enormous pluralism
that exists within this large community (there are some 48 million Catholics in
the United States alone). Roman Catholicism is heterogeneous in national
origins, education and cultural consciousness. It contains a great variety of
religious subcultures, expressive of radically different values derived from
various settings and historical periods. Finally, the rigidity of the church’s
centralized authority makes it peculiarly difficult for it to change past
rulings, even though the consciousness of the majority of its laity and of its
theological experts may have shifted dramatically away from earlier
formulations. All these factors contribute to major confrontations in a number
of areas. Given the peculiar 2,000-year history of Christian attitudes toward
sexuality, it is not at all surprising that sex-related matters have become one
arena for confrontation. Papal
Intransigence In recent years a number of dramatic
statements issued by the Vatican have pointedly refused to acknowledge new
thinking on sexuality and have reaffirmed traditional teaching. Thus, in 1968
Pope Paul VI went against the majority of his own papal commission to affirm
the immorality of artificial contraception. The 1975 Declaration on Sexual
Ethics ignored contemporary developments and reiterated a severe condemnation
of masturbation and homosexuality. Intransigence on such issues as divorce,
married clergy and the ordination of women are related, psychosocially, to
these controversies over changing sexual mores. The recently issued study on human
sexuality commissioned and approved by the Catholic Theological Society of
America (Human Sexuality: New Directions in American Catholic Thought, Paulist
Press, $8.50) is a direct effort to respond to this impasse. Enable to
impress newer views on papal declarations, the theological society (the major
organization of Catholic professional theologians) has opted for an independent
magisterial statement issued on its own authority which will allow Catholics,
both lay and pastoral, fuller options for choice between traditional and more
recent thinking. The issuance of such a statement on the
authority of the theological society -- a study that contradicts traditional
and recent papal views at a number of points -- represents the surfacing of a
major authority conflict in the Roman Catholic Church. More and more,
theologians are refusing to make themselves exegetes and apologists for
hierarchical views that contradict their own best understandings. It is
unlikely that this gap of consciousness and conflict of authority between the
hierarchy and the intelligentsia will soon disappear. Scripture,
Tradition and Science The Catholic study represents a major
effort to shift the basis of sexual ethics from act-oriented to person-oriented
principles. It begins with an evaluation of authority in Scripture, tradition
and empirical sciences. All three are treated as equally important, with
empirical sciences offering important correctives to inaccurate notions found
in Scripture and tradition. It is noted that traditional Catholic
sexual ethics, despite its avowed foundations in “natural law,” was
aprioristic. Deduced from metaphysical assumptions, it ignored developing
scientific knowledge. Much of its preoccupation with the male seed “going in
the right place” was derived from a false biology that overlooked the female
ovum. The social subjugation (A women was also an important factor in
preventing the emergence of authentic interpersonal principles. For example,
traditional ethics treated masturbation as a more serious sin than rape, since
the former “wasted the seed” while the latter preserved the biological
structure of procreation! In the theological society’s new study,
Scripture is treated as pluralistic, setting forth no unified code, with many
of its dictates referring to social situations that no longer obtain. The
person-oriented ethics of Jesus is seen as a corrective to the patriarchalism
of the Old Testament and the later Pauline tradition. Tradition is regarded as
seriously flawed throughout because of its negativity toward sex and its
objectivist view of the “function” of women. Procreation as the norm of sexual
ethics suppressed proper consideration of interpersonal values. Science can
provide important biological and anthropological data to correct dogmatic
notions of the universality of this or that sexual norm, but cannot itself
provide an ethical norm. A more person-oriented ethic, the study suggests, has
been emerging gradually in Catholic thought over the past several generations,
and is vindicated in the liberal wing of contemporary Catholic ethicists of
which this study is a reflection. A Humanized
Sexuality The study goes on to spell out a
“theology of sexual ethics” which can provide the basis for both principles and
pastoral guidelines. The notion of absolute “do’s and don’ts” that can provide
final judgments about the immorality of any particular sexual act is rejected.
In its place the study proposes a criterion of humanized versus dehumanized
sexuality. A humanized sexuality is one that promotes “creative growth toward
integration.” It contains the capacity for personal affirmation and mutuality
at the same time. It is “self-liberating, other-affirming, honest, faithful,
socially responsible, life-serving and joyous.” Dehumanized sex is sex that
consistently negates one or more of these principles. It is evident that no one
sexual act serves all these functions all the time. The question is one of
patterns of life rather than of individual acts. Is the particular pattern of
sexual acts moving toward the pole of humanization or toward the pole of
dehumanization? Traditional moralists will be acutely
discomfited by these principles. No longer is it possible to state dogmatically
that any particular act -- masturbation, adultery, premarital sex,
homosexuality, etc. -- is automatically and intrinsically immoral. Rather, all such
acts must be judged in the context of their service to self- and
other-affirming life patterns or their opposites. This approach allows relative
judgments that certain categories of acts are likely to be negative, but no
absolutes. Not the act but the quality of life it serves is the standard of
judgment. The study also discards all double
standards of sexual ethics that judge women differently from men, single
persons (including celibates) differently from married persons, and homosexuals
differently from heterosexuals. All persons, in whatever walk of life or sexual
orientation, are sexual beings who must find self-development through sexual
maturation. The standards of humanizing versus dehumanizing sexuality can be
applied equally to all, with proper nuancing for those who have chosen to bear
and raise children and those who have not. Responsible
Decisions The study then moves into the
consideration of pastoral guidelines for particular issues. Starting with
married couples, the authors see responsible partnership and responsible
parenthood as equal values. They discard the hierarchy of values that made procreation
the norm to which sexual love was subordinated. Couples have a serious
obligation to develop their sexual relations as the fullest expression of
mutual love. Any positions and any aids (such as sex clinics) that properly
serve this end are acceptable. Responsible parenthood means that couples
should bear only as many children as they can properly raise, considering not
only their economic resources but also their psychological capacities. Once a
responsible decision is made, ‘the whole range of birth-control methods can be
considered as options in accordance with their medical, psychological and
personal effects. For example, if a method (such as rhythm) is ineffective and
thus causes great personal anxiety, that factor argues against its use. The study considers such matters as
sterilization, artificial insemination and child-free marriage. Both
sterilization and artificial insemination are viewed as acceptable if they
accord with values of mutual decision-making and responsible parenting.
Child-free marriage is viewed as a minority decision, but one that can be
responsibly made by those concerned with overpopulation or those whose personal
careers and psychological capacities do not dispose them to parenting. In order
for the over-all values of a relationship to be served by this decision, such a
couple must not only build a high level of mutuality between themselves but
also use their relationship for life-serving; functions in society. Thus the
“lifeserving” criterion of humanized sexuality, while it normatively means
bearing and raising children, can also be sublimated in childless and single
people as a nurturing role in society. Challenges to traditional monogamy --
common-law marriage, adultery and “swinging” -- are considered. Common-law
marriage is seen as often the result of economic impediments. For example, many
older persons who seek companionship and form a relationship of mutual support
are prevented from legalizing this union by the fear of losing social-security
benefits. Christians should work to change laws that create such conflicts
rather than judging the relationship as immoral. The common-law marriage may
have the qualities of mutuality that make for an authentic relationship.
Swinging and adultery, on the other hand, are viewed as so impeding the values
of fidelity and mutuality that it would be difficult to find an instance where
such behavior belongs to a humanizing rather than a dehumanizing pattern. If the study rejects the act-oriented
ethics of earlier tradition, it equally rejects a merely physical,
“recreational” view of sex. A pleasurable sexual relationship that is dishonest
and destructive toward the betrayed marriage partner cannot be justified. The
authors do not rule out the possibility that there may be instances where full
permission and acceptance of a three-cornered relationship may be given and
received by all parties concerned. But they regard the exclusivity of the
sexual relationship as so inherent in its structure that such a relationship
could rarely happen. Some couples may delude themselves into thinking they have
such an arrangement and then discover later the psychological damage done. Premarital Sex The authors’ evaluation of premarital sex
is more tolerant than that of extramarital relations. It is assumed that social
mores have changed significantly on this subject and that the greater autonomy
of women, as well as the availability of contraception, alters many of the
earlier sanctions in this area. Young people will normally grow into an
awareness of their sexuality through a process of relations and experiences.
They should be guided toward a faithful and committed relationship of mutual
growth. Full sexual expression should follow rather than precede the
development of in-depth friendship and relationship. But if a particular
relationship is moving toward a full commitment, a sexual expression even
before legal marriage cannot be regarded very severely. On the other hand,
casual use of sex, where no such in-depth relation exists, is regarded as
dehumanizing. The assumption here is that sex is the most intimate and
vulnerable expression of interpersonalism. The more it expresses and operates
in the context of such relationship, the more it promotes positive values. Single persons and the divorced or
widowed cannot be expected to be asexual, even if they have no prospects of
marriage. Some faithful friendship that allows such persons to love and be
loved is good for them too. Here too, sexual expression must be in proportion
to the approximation of such relationships to in-depth mutuality, faithfulness
and commitment. Even celibates cannot be excluded from such considerations.
They too must accept and develop themselves as sexual beings – i.e., develop
their capacities for friendship and caring with both sexes. Although the nature
of the celibate commitment is one of sublimation of the capacities for genital
sexuality and procreation for some more universal life-serving to humanity,
close personal friendships, perhaps of long duration, between sexes cannot be excluded
as part of the development of a mature capacity for relationship. Faithful
Relationships One of the most controversial areas of
the study will undoubtedly be its judgments on homosexuality. The study
speculates that homosexuality may be a regular though minority orientation,
like left-handedness, occurring in about 5 per cent of the population. Most
persons have a certain range of bisexuality, with a preference for one or
another orientation. Although the vast majority of persons are biased toward heterosexuality,
that minority which finds homosexuality the “normal” orientation cannot be
changed by therapy or psychosocial harassments. It is immoral for society to
attempt to do so. Rather, once persons are clear that homosexuality is the
orientation that is normal for them, and is not simply a stage of their
development, then they should be accepted as such. Like heterosexuals, homosexuals should be
encouraged to form faithful and mutual relationships. They too must judge the
morality of their sexuality for its capacity to develop life-serving,
self-liberating and other-enriching honest and faithful relationships. It is
the quality of this relationship that makes it moral or immoral, not its
heterosexuality or homosexuality. There is some slight suggestion in the study
that homosexuality falls short of the full norm of sexual development because
it cannot be procreative. But since this criterion has already been relativized
for child-free marriages and other heterosexual relations that sublimate procreation
toward societal forms of life-serving, it would seem that the same standards
should be applied to homosexuals as well. At the close of the study, such topics as
masturbation, transsexualism, bestiality, sex clinics and pornography are
considered. The overly severe judgments on masturbation are discarded;
nevertheless, not all masturbation is regarded as healthy. The question rather
is whether it is a part of youthful self-exploration and development toward the
ability to use one’s sexuality relationally or whether it has become a neurotic
compensation for the inability to relate. Transsexual operations are regarded
as acceptable if they enable a person to function in a more holistic way by
bringing biological and gender identities into harmony. Likewise, pornography should be
distinguished from sexually explicit material intended for education. Such
material should be rejected as pornographic when its fundamental message is
degrading and exploitative and when it treats sex as an object for use rather
than as a medium of human relationship. But sexual education is desirable for
most people -- not only youth but also sexually miseducated adults, including
celibates, who need to develop a mature sense of their sexuality. Person-Centered
Principles There is no doubt that these principles
and judgments will cause great controversy in American Catholicism. It should
be emphasized that such a brief description hardly does justice to the nuanced
efforts to weigh various traditions of moral judgment and to apply person-centered
principles to balanced decision-making. The result is neither ascetic nor
libertine but respectful of the difficulties of multivalued decisions in an
imperfect world where, nevertheless, one must constantly pursue wholeness and
love rather than their opposites. Taken seriously, such person-centered
principles would not merely relax many traditional judgments, but would impose
much more rigorous standards of ethics where the tradition was lenient. For
example, exploitative and joyless marital sex was traditionally not only
condoned but often enjoined on the woman as her marital “debt.” The principles
of this study would judge such dehumanized sex, even within marriage, as a
serious moral failing. Most of all, the study calls people of all kinds and
conditions to the difficult task of using their sexuality to be fully human. |